Jane Doe, Student submission.
Men and women still fake when they climax, even though the vast majority of women who tell their partners how they like to be touched have orgasms, according to Psychology Today.
Let your body feel pleasure. Here are some hot tips so you don’t have to hold anything back.
How to get started
No one is an expert at sex, because every person’s body is different. Make sure to focus only on your partner. Giving them all your attention should hint to them that you want to get going. If they still don’t get it, don’t be shy. Tell them. You can’t expect them to guess.
Quick tip: Don’t compare stamina, size of body parts, taste or smell to a past relationship.
Let’s Talk
Initiating a conversation about each other’s likes and dislikes goes a long way. Most people have experience playing with themselves and know exactly what they want, and where they want it. Remember that hands are always your best tools during sex. Implementing what a person likes during sex will make any guy or girl stand out in their partner’s minds.
Precoitus precautions
Everyone has had different exposure to intercourse. It’s important to talk about how far your partner wants to go or what precautions they use. Do not chance pregnancy or transmission of sexually transmitted diseases. Consider discussing birth control early so you can keep going and going and going.
NEVER skip foreplay
There are many different types of foreplay. Sometimes, it’s best to stick with the basics of turning your partner on. This can be done with the hands and the mouth. Fingering or handjobs are a great way to get the engines revving. When doing either of these, make sure to always ask what your partner likes. The goal is to get her as wet – or him as hard – as possible.
Quick tip: When getting a handjob or getting fingered, place your hand on your partner’s arm or leg. Then, either brush or tap your finger to show when you want the speed increased or slowed. This feedback keeps your partner from guessing what to do and keeps you pleasured.
Know the limits
When trying something new, it is important to talk about boundaries. Everyone goes at a different pace. It is best to ease into situations – those without experience do not want to be jabbed, bitten or ripped apart in certain places. It is never a bad idea to ask: “Are you okay?”
Feel safe with your partner – communicate well so it is a pleasurable experience for both of you. Remember, always wear a condom.
Stay thirsty, my friends.
